As Buddha said, “Your work is to discover your work and then with all your heart to give yourself to it.” Discovering and pursuing your life’s work is an essential aspect of leading a fulfilling life. It can be a challenging journey, but once you find that thing you’re truly passionate about, the rewards are immeasurable. This requires self-reflection, exploration, and a willingness to take risks. Reflect on your interests, values, and skills, explore different career paths, and be patient with yourself. Remember that you’re not working for someone else; you’re working for yourself. You have the power to take ownership of your career and drive it in the direction you want it to go.

Realizing that you’ve given too much to a job or a company that you were once passionate about can be a difficult and often disillusioning experience. It can lead to feelings of burnout, disillusionment, and even resentment. By taking a step back and reassessing your priorities, you can find what’s truly important to you and find ways to integrate it into your work. This may involve setting boundaries, pursuing new opportunities, or even making a career change.

I came to understand that it’s solely our responsibility to take control of our careers and make sure that the way we invest our time and energy is in harmony with our personal goals and aspirations. Even though it’s important to contribute to a company’s objectives, you should not compromise your own sense of purpose and satisfaction. It’s crucial to prioritize your own objectives and explore ways to incorporate them into your work to achieve balance and self-improvement.

Here are steps you can take to regain control:

• Reassess your priorities: Take some time to reflect on what’s truly important to you and what you want to achieve in your career and personal life.
• Set boundaries: Once you’ve identified your priorities, set clear boundaries around your work and personal life to make sure that you’re dedicating enough time to both.
• Take breaks: It’s important to take breaks and time off to recharge and avoid burnout. Schedule time for activities that bring you joy and help you disconnect from work.
• Pursue new opportunities: Consider pursuing new projects, roles, or even a new career path that aligns with your goals and passions.
• Seek support: Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to help you navigate this transition and stay accountable to your goals

By taking even a couple of the steps above, you will regain control over your work life. It’s our job to make sure that we’re investing our time and energy in a way that aligns with our own goals and aspirations.